SolveYourProblem eLearning Series: Self Confidence
How Do I Improve My Self Confidence?

How To Stay Positive
   

Self-confidence relies heavily on the power of positive thinking. Your ultimate goal is believing in your abilities enough to attempt to change your life for the better. Thankfully, even the most pessimistic person in the world can believe they are capable of completing small enough tasks. that's what makes baby steps work!

Many things contribute to a negative point of view. Personal tragedies happen to everyone, but some people obviously handle more than others. Beat down by the realities of life, it's very hard to remember the good points too.

Sometimes it becomes almost impossible to expect good things to happen. Their disappointment is debilitating. Others are So anxious or paranoid that they are frozen by the fear of catastrophe.

I don't believe in therapy for all, but getting help if you need it could mean the difference between a lifetime of heartache and a world of possibilities. Sometimes our disorders are caused by an imbalance in the chemicals in our bodies that can be evened out through the right medication. Bottom line is, if you feel so fearful of failure that you are unable to do things that others are able to do, you may want to see your doctor.

Out there too are plenty of normal people who see the bad before the good in every situation. Ironically, they can be some of the most self-confident people around IF they learn the patience to search for the good in situations as well.

Ironic too are the loads of extrovert, "People Persons" who seem upbeat and happy all day long, but once removed from company they become dismal and lethargic. Never ending optimism can be a show you put on for others - just as outward confidence can mask a serious lack of personal courage.

Prepare for the Worst

Every time you make a decision, you face the risk of failure. If you have a problem maintaining a healthy attitude, always have a plan B ready. Staying active helps keep you from becoming stagnant when your original plans fall through.

Failure is not the end of an attempt. If you start out on a trip and take a wrong direction, you don't turn around and head home. You search the map, and ask directions, and laugh about the troubles when you reach your hotel.

The same thing goes for a journey in life. Every time you decide to make a change, you are taking yourself in a new direction. It's okay if it doesn't take you straight to your goal. Back up, consider your intended destination, and search for ways on how to get there.

Plan for the Best

Improvement is fun, whether you're fixing up some old rickety shack or fixing the problems in your life. Imagining the most wonderful outcome keeps your feet moving forward. Those daydreams keep you active.

No matter how ridiculous it sounds, find pictures that represent what you want to change in your life and post them in appropriate places. You want to wear a size 5? Take a picture of that sexy red dress and tape it ... in the refrigerator. Is a better paying job on your list of wants? Cut a Dodge Viper out of a magazine and tape it to your coffee maker, or better yet, your steering wheel.

Focus on your dreams enough to keep you striving.

Be Proud of Yourself

Self-confident people take note of their abilities. To be able to say, "I want this" and then to put in place a plan for getting it ... that's a big thing. So many people say they want to lose weight, but they don't want to wait to get the little steps out of the way. So many people say they want to get their finances under control but they don't want to spend a few dollars to really check out their credit reports.

If you've put for the effort to making a bite-sized plan, you've done more than 80% of people do. That's something to be proud of. If you can do that, you can complete your little goals ... and your big ones too.

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