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Article Series: Procrastination
I'll Do It Later, Procrastinator
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Ways To Stop Procrastinating & Move Forward
Procrastination can be a sticky problem to
overcome because you avoid taking action at all costs, which
leaves you feeling even more frightened or intimidated - which
causes you to procrastinate even more! Eventually you find
yourself caught in a vicious circle; wanting to make changes
but feeling powerless to do so.
The good news is that once you do begin moving forward, it
seems much easier to keep the momentum going. But how do you
motivate yourself to begin moving forward at all?
Try one or more of these strategies:
1.
Pump yourself up
Sometimes simple mind games can be enough to get you moving.
Procrastination usually comes along with a mental conversation
that might sound something like this: “I really don’t want
to perform that task or activity right now. Maybe I should
fold some laundry or go to the store. No, I really should get
this done, but I feel intimidated. Maybe I should put it off
until I feel ready to handle it.” Essentially you argue with
yourself – but usually on a subconscious level.
However, you can use this same mental dialogue in a more conscious,
empowering way too! Try engaging in some self talk like this,
“You know you can do this! You’re stronger than any procrastination
habit; just get moving, no more excuses! You’ll feel so great
when you finally start making progress! It won’t seem so bad
once you get going.”
2.
Give yourself a reward
Bribery can also work well if you’re having trouble pumping
yourself up. Promise yourself something nice like a new outfit,
book, or gadget if you make a specific amount of progress on
your task. You can also choose less expensive rewards like
treating yourself to favorite foods or taking some time off
once you’ve completed the task. Just be sure you follow through
on your promise or you’ll have a harder time bribing yourself
next time.
3.
Focus on the satisfaction
If nothing else works, focus intently on the feeling of satisfaction
you’ll gain when the job is done! Most often when you procrastinate
you’re focusing on the negative aspects of the task you don’t
want to do, like how hard it will be, how unpleasant or boring,
and so on. By focusing more on the positive gains, you’ll feel
more inclined to take action so you can enjoy the feeling of
accomplishment.
These motivational tactics and others are only effective if
you’re willing to give them a fair chance to work. When it
comes right down to it, YOU have to be the one to decide to
get moving – no matter what it takes to do so.
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