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Article Series: Procrastination
I'll Do It Later, Procrastinator
What’s
Your Reward For Procrastinating?
You may be familiar with the concept that
everything you do has a payoff, and procrastination is no different!
Though it may not seem likely that such a problematic habit
could have a payoff, when you start exploring the possibilities
you realize that you are indeed gaining something by procrastinating.
Take a look at these common payoffs of procrastination and
consider whether they might apply to your own life too:
Keeping
you firmly ensconced in your comfort zones. Stepping out
of your comfort zones and trying new things can be scary!
Procrastination provides the illusion of comfort and safety,
so you don’t have to face frightening or uncertain situations
that you may not feel ready to handle.
Unfortunately, a life without risk is also a life without
rewards. Procrastination may help you avoid feeling scared
and challenged, but you’ll also end up feeling powerless and
stuck.
Avoiding
conflict and confrontation. You may procrastinate as a way
to avoid standing up for yourself or making difficult
decisions that would improve your quality of life. This can
include things like asking for something you want, telling
someone how you feel, or even avoiding social situations altogether.
While it may seem safer to avoid situations you’re not sure
how to handle, doing so keeps you feeling isolated and scared.
You’ll not only avoid the “bad stuff” like conflict and confrontation;
you’ll also deny yourself the more positive benefits that come
from interacting meaningfully with others!
Provides
a handy excuse for not being more successful. The more you
procrastinate, the messier your life is going to seem,
which creates a convenient excuse for not achieving more. You
can point to your financial problems, your relationship dysfunction
and your mountains of stress and affirm that it’s because of
those things that you haven’t reached your goals yet.
Under the surface of these excuses, it’s more likely that
you feel intimidated by the thought of success so you’ll avoid
creating it in your life – even if it’s something you want
badly!
Once you understand your payoff, you can learn to gradually
shift your focus to better payoffs you’ll receive by overcoming
procrastination. You may need to face a few fears and build
enough courage to step out of your comfort zones, but once
you do, you quickly realize that those old procrastination
payoffs weren’t payoffs at all – just a ball and chain around
your ankle.
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: 2008
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