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How
To Meditate in Times of Crisis
Meditation is most often used on an incremental
basis to help prevent and relieve stress or develop a deeper
spiritual connection, but did you know that you can also use
meditation techniques to handle an emotional crisis
when you need to feel better quickly? It does help if you’re familiar
with meditation before attempting these techniques, but they
can work moderately well even for beginners.
Before we get to the techniques, it’s important that you strengthen
your resolve to use them in the first place, which is not always
easy to do when you’re feeling unsettled or frightened by a
crisis. Most of us are used to blindly reacting to our outer
circumstances without a thought of how we might better handle
them. However, in order for these techniques to work, you’ll
need to be willing to distance yourself from turbulent emotions
long enough to choose a different response. Doing that might
take a bit of willpower and practice, but like any habit the
more you do it, the more natural it will feel.
Begin
by practicing saying phrases like these as often as
you can: “It’s okay, I can handle this. I’m strong enough to
handle this. Everything is going to be okay.” These calming
words will trigger your emotions to begin shifting from fear
and agitation to peace and acceptance, even if the transition
is a bit shaky at first. Even if you haven’t been practicing
these calming statements for long, you may still notice that
they help you feel more settled.
Enhance
the calming effect even further by taking slow, steady,
deep breaths. When we find ourselves in a tense situation we
automatically begin breathing quickly and shallowly, which
only keeps us feeling tense and constricted. If you instead
make a conscious decision to slow and deepen your breathing,
you’ll notice that the rest of your body begins to relax, and
your emotions will also follow suit.
Finally, close your eyes for just a few moments and consciously
release turbulent thoughts and emotions. Imagine that your
mind is an empty vessel, and try to keep it that way for a
few minutes. This can be incredibly helpful because our natural
impulse is to focus obsessively on the situation that has upset
us – which keeps us locked into a cycle of negative thought
and negative emotion. If you take just a few minutes to break
the circuit and clear your mind, you create a space for peace
and calm to enter.
Just minutes after beginning these techniques you should feel
much calmer, more optimistic, and able to handle whatever comes
your way. Then you can focus on possible solutions to the problems,
or simply work on coping if that’s the only available option.
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