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Understanding The Law Of Attraction

Self-Love & The Law of Attraction
   

You may have heard it said before that you can't take care of another person until you take care of yourself, and it's never more true than when trying to use the Law of Attraction to improve your life.

Self-love is one of the most important attributes to possess in order to succeed using the Law of Attraction to get what you want. Why is that? Because if you don't love yourself, you won't feel deserving of those things that you want.

According to the 3rd and final step of the Law of Attraction - Allow - you must be in vibrational alignment with the having of your desires in order to have them fulfilled. In other words, unless you love yourself, you won't allow those things that would bring you fulfillment into your life.

Remember, all emotions, all feelings, are fundamentally energy, which travel in vibrations. Fear, anger, resentment, insecurity, anxiety - these all emit different energetic vibrations. As do appreciation, joy, passion, peace, and - yes - love.

Whatever vibrations we put out into the Universe attracts back to us a matching energetic vibration. Another way to put this is to say that whatever we feel attracts more evidence validating those feelings. What energetic vibrations are you emitting right now, and how do you think that could be affecting your life as you currently experience it?

The vibration of love is the most powerful energy there is, and self-love is the greatest energetic magnet for drawing to you all that you desire. Love yourself and you draw into your realm of experience ever more people, things, situations, and circumstances that justify and reinforce those feelings of love you have for yourself.

One obstacle many people come up against here is mistaking less-than loving emotions like pride, egotism, selfishness, arrogance, and conceit. That's not love at all. On the contrary, those are fear based emotions designed to compensate for a pronounced lack of love.

Loving yourself allows you to engage freely in the positive energetic flow of source energy. Loving yourself includes loving others, for you cannot truly love yourself if at the same time you feel bitterness, resentment, or any other negative emotions towards your surroundings.

Our surroundings are merely extensions of ourselves. Our environment mirrors how we feel inside. This is the very foundation of the Law of Attraction. It is therefore impossible for you to love yourself without feeling love for your life and those around you. It is a self-perpetuating feedback loop.

Read that word again: self-perpetuating. You have the power to determine what energies you are fueling in your life. You are always doing it. You are always drawing to you perfect reflections of exactly that which you feel you deserve. To change the outward reflection of your feelings, then, get to work on changing your feelings of deservingness.

Allow yourself to experience that all-powerful feeling of self-love that is your birthright. Forgive yourself for past mistakes. Appreciate yourself for having gotten this far. And begin to cultivate seeds of self-love with all the tender care and nurturing you deserve.

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