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Article Series: Law Of Attraction
Understanding The Law Of Attraction
Attracting
The Perfect Relationship
In
this article we apply the lessons of the Law of Attraction
to partnership relationships or romantic
relationships, though the insights discussed apply to all relationships
of all kinds – friends, parent/child, etc.
The
people we attract to ourselves in life match up vibrationally
with some energy we’re projecting. Attracting the right kinds
of matches into your life then requires first and foremost
accepting responsibility for the people you do attract. And
taking responsibility for the kinds of people who show up in
your life entails taking responsibility for how you “show up”
in your life, inside and out. Change you vibrations, change
what (and who) they attract.
Love
in an energy – one we foster from within. When we access
that energy of love from within, we project its vibrations
outside of us; in our actions and in our being, we come from
a place of love. This invariably attracts that same energy
of love into our lives, for example in the form of other people
to love who also loving us.
One of the problems people have in getting the love they want
is that so much of what people call ‘love’ isn’t love
at all.
Often it’s attachment: to the other person, to the relationship
looking the way you think it should look, or even an attachment
to “drama”. Other times it’s fear: fear of loss, fear of not
being worthy of love, or one we hear a lot, fear of being happy,
which really just amounts to more fear of not being worthy
of love and fear of loss.
Some sages say that people ‘crush’ love like a bird in the
hand when you hold onto it too hard, and while the image may
be apt we prefer to say that when you cling to love you detach
from it. If that sounds like a paradox, you’re catching on.
Clinging to love out of attachment and fear disengages you
from the love itself and grips you to your attachment and fear.
As does clinging to your ideas of what love should look like
when and if it ever does “come”.
Love is an energy. It cannot be gripped any more than you
can grip light; you can only be bathed in it, or shut yourself
away in the dark. But the light is there nonetheless, and right
outside the door. Love flows, and to have the relationship
of your fondest desires, let the love flow through you and
from within you.
Rather than focusing on fixing the problems in your relationship
(or your utter lack of one), engage in the flow of love and
watch the problems (or lack) dissolve. Change the circumstances,
situations, and conditions you find yourself in by allowing
yourself to feel here and now the love you aim to feel for
the new circumstances, situations, and conditions.
The perfect relationship with another person comes from nurturing
a perfect relationship with yourself; in other words: loving
yourself fully and unconditionally as you are, and appreciating
yourself fully for all the love you have inside to give. # # # # #
SolveYourProblem.com : 2008
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