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Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
How To Know
A Woman's Interest
Hello!
When I’m taking
to a woman, how do I know if she likes me or not? Often my friends
will say that a woman seemed to like me, but I just don’t see
it.
Can you help me?
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Hello!
Wouldn't it be
nice if there was a red flag on a woman's ass or something that
went up the moment she became interested in you? It'd sure be
easier! In fact, women actually try to hide this fact from you!
It was recently discovered that women use all sorts of verbal
techniques in order to get men to show their hands while keeping
themselves from doing so! I talk much more about this, and the
items below in my new book, due out next year.
With that said
however, that doesn't mean that you can't know when a woman
is interested in you. However, it's about a thousand little
clues rather than one big obvious one. So, let's look at some
of the things you'll want to look for:
q Eye contact -
this is the most important first step. If you get multiple eye
connections with a woman (3-4 is ideal), get your ass over there
and say "hello"!
q Touching - when
a woman feels comfortable with you, she will place a hand on
your arm or "accidentally" brush up against you with
any other part of her body.
q Leaning in toward
you - someone that is interested in you will lean toward you
either with her entire body or even just her head.
q Use an open posture
- an "open posture" means that her arms are uncrossed.
Some believe that her legs will also be uncrossed and that may
happen, but today, most women still cross their legs when interested.
Just notice if she's crossed them toward you rather than away.
q Talks to you
in "full face" - that is, she is facing directly toward
you either with her shoulders square or her face directly at
you.
q Attention - she
gives you her full attention; it's not divided between your
talking and her scanning the room.
q You get digits
- I believe that you should "close" with every woman
you approach. That doesn't mean that you'll succeed every time,
but so what? You'll get good practice instead, and you'll find
that you actually get phone numbers, email addresses and more
if you just ask!
There are a thousand
other subtle clues that you want to watch for and many of them
are specific to your part of the world! You might want to ask
your buddies why they think any particular woman is interested
in you, and what signs they are using to determine that.
Best regards...
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Have a love, relationship,
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for answers. For more information about my books, "Being
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products visit: www.beingaman.com.
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