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Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
How To Handle
a Dry Spell
Hey Doc!
I seem to have
hit a recent dry-spell with women. Every woman I keep running
into is already "involved" with someone else, have
messed up lives, or something is mentally wrong with them! For
a while I'll have plenty of women to choose from, then all of
a sudden, the well runs dry! The old ones start boring me, and
the new ones are basically f*cked up! Is this common?
Is it really a
numbers game like they say? I'd like to get back on the right
track as quick as possible!
Thanks Doc!
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Hello!
This is actually
quite common. You're going have the feast/famine scenario pretty
regularly, but that's not a bad thing - if you make use of the
feast side of things and plan for the famine.
The trick is to
gather numbers when the gettin' is good, and the to harvest
those numbers when things get slim. Remember that you want to
space things out a little bit so that you’re not calling women
back before a week anyway. If you play things right, you can
actually make contact and them put them back another 2 weeks,
make contact again, etc. You can only do this about 3-4 times
before she’s going to go crazy wondering if you’re ever going
to actually meet her however!
Further, yes -
you're going to find that many women you meet are either crazy,
demanding, game-playing, claim to already be hooked up, (even
though they just spent the last 40 minutes flirting with you),
or just down-right bitches! This is just the rule of the game.
You won't know these things until after you call them back,
so be ready. It's just the hazards of the game.
Best regards...
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