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Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
The Elusive
"G Spot"
I have tried everything that I have read, and been told to try
when it comes to finding the g-spot. I have even bought toys
to use on myself, but have had no luck at all.
I have been told
were it is, and that if you feel like you have to pee, then
you are doing the right thing, and to just let it go. When I
do this the only thing that I get is pee (it's not a pretty
picture!) I have even gone pee before hand, and I get the same
out come, or lack there of.
Do you have any
advice on how I can find my g-spot? I would hate to think that
I am going to have to go all my life with out it. Please help
me!!!
Thank you!
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Hello!
Don't get all wrapped
up in your g-spot! Every woman is different. You might not have
the same experience as other women with your own anatomy. Frankly,
what's important isn't that you find it - or that you even have
one; what's important is that your sexual response is healthy
and that you are comfortable with your body!
In most women,
the g-spot is a fleshy area about 1-1/2 to 2 inches inside the
front wall of your vagina (if you were standing up). You can
sometimes find it by inserting a finger inside you while lying
on your back and curving it upwards. You may (or may not) find
an area that has a slightly different sensation. I've never
heard of anyone saying it felt like you had to pee, but again,
every woman is different!
Consider that some
women are able to climax in a slightly different way from this
type of stimulation. This climax sometimes includes an ejaculation
of fluid that isn't urine at all, but is actually mostly water
and other materials. I've had women riding me that came so hard
they ejaculated and actually soaked the bed and me!
These are all normal
physical reactions and if you have them, fine. If not, fine.
The key isn't to be like everyone else. It's to be healthy and
happy in the way that fits YOU.
Best regards...
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