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Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
Does My
Girlfriend Love Me?
Doc:
I've seen your
articles around the Internet and I've have a question for you.
How would I know if my girlfriend really does love me or not?
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Hello!
Frankly, she probably loves you, but your question (if I understand
it) is if she's "in love" with you.
Obviously, I can't read her mind to be able to tell you, however,
let me offer the following:
Poets, song writers and romantics have been trying to define
exactly what love is since man has been around. To date, nobody
has been able to give a definition that comes close to embodying
the true nature of love. However, here's one person's definition
that I think comes close:
"When you are more concerned with someone else's happiness,
well-being, future and life than even your own, you're in love."
That may seem somewhat vague or trite, but it's a pretty good
definition in my eyes. When you dwell over someone else's happiness,
well-being, future and life everyday; when you place more concern
on them and would even forego these things for yourself in order
to have them for the other person - that's what love feels like.
So, to your question: is your girlfriend in love with you?
Ask yourself this: how does she treat you? Do your happiness,
well-being, future and life come before hers according to her
actions? Anyone can say they love someone else, but it's very
difficult to fake. If she's truly in love with you, her actions
will scream it from every pore! What someone does is always
more accurate than what they say.
Now, the only question you have to answer is: do you love her?
Best regards...
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